Im sorry. i just had some free time and i thought i would read through some posts, they are CRAZY!
I mean, i think a lot of you women seem really sweet and good natured, so i cant understand why you would subject yourself to arguing and dealing with such negative talk online. I've replied a few times when i thought i had helpful advise, or when i needed advise, and that keeps me coming to this website.
But really ladies, if you get into fights with people like this "Barbra" or some other ones ive read, youre just bringing negativity into the world, and your life, i say lock it as soon as they start talking, or just ignore their posts all together. I guarantee you will have less headaches.
Please no negative responses...i dont know how to lock this. lol
it is partially my fault it got out of hand. i made the mistake of leaving my computer (it doesnt happen often lol). but only the topic creator or a mod can lock it and i wasnt here to do so. although i must say that one person went out of her way to keep it going and went to the point of stalking several moms in real life so the police have been notified. thats the only reason i dont delete the post.
its not really your fault. adults should behave as such. lol, im only 20 and i know this. good luck with the police work tho! i hope they dont shut down the site, i find it super helpful when im in a bind!
Elizabeth it wasn't your fault.I will accept responsibility for it.I did stoop to low.I don't usually get that way but she does have a way of bring the "beast" out in me.I am sorry to anyone I might have offended.
I have been telling others the same thing, to just ignore her on the posts. But she came after me for no reason. I wasn't even the one arguing on the post with her, Carel was. So, we had to file a police complaint. Found out there's like 5 other complaints from others she has done this to. Now she has been e-mailing people on HYS who are advertising, and she is being mean & rude, correcting their grammar & putting them down. The only way to stop people like this is to ignore them. Not answer any of their posts & skip when they answer on yours.
Amanda, don't worry they won't shut down this site. I teach my kids that "all things work together for good.. and that you can choose to look at your glasss as half empty or half full. In essence good can come from bad. I have had like 25 candy bars sold for the woman that was sent the rude e-mail, so good has overcome bad in this situation.
Is she really stalking people, even after talking about it earlier? That's kind of creepy. Be careful, don't push her to hard because she could end up being one of "THOSE PEOPLE". The ones who end up on America's most wanted because she killed her neighbors and buried there bodies under her house.
Does anyone know if she likes to eat brains or maybe gay black vulnerable men.
Has anyone seen her wear a clown costume as of lately? Quick someone smell her house! It puts the lotion on its skin or it gets the hose again!!!
If you notice any of these and other creepy characteristics please call crime watchers or maybe J. Edgar Hover.
(Im just kidding and for the select few who cant take a serial killer joke im referencing real life serial killers in the most awesome of bad tastes ;})
I know I was part of it and I said some things I shouldn't have said, but really she shouldn't have been doing that to people on here. My background is politics I have a Bachelors in Poli Sci, but I guess that is also the reason I stay away from Politics. My husband is in the Air Force and I am not a fan of the military. So I am sorry if I offended anyone.
Roberta, it is NOBODY'S fault. She has done this with like 5 other people-that is straight from the POLICE'S mouth. She was a moderator of another underground & got removed due to her attitude. She says the things she does to scare people. Like ALL bully's she doesn't act on it. She never showed herself. She was on her computer with you all most of the time.
Take what she says with a grain of salt(and sprinkle it around your door ways in case she is a witch)Not really just kidding.I can assure you she isen't going to do anything.She is a coward.She invited me to the park and I went and she never showed her face.She hide(if she really went)She is just all talk.People like that are bullies and just try to scare people.Don't let her.She may have weapons she owns but so does other people.Hehe.I wouldn't even think twice about her arrogant and opnoxious self.This is just my opinion and I will bet on it...
i read the arrgeument and she was in the wrong.im sorry that she had to get nasty carel.she was in the wrong and she knew it.and u kept and making that point that she was wrong so it made her mad.i know pple like that.and believe me.they will keep going cuz they like to c how pple react to what they have to say.it sick and childish.she needs to get a life.
She was wrong in her sarcastic comment about the military. Yeah she was being sarcastic but it was just mean. SHe only said it because most people on here have fam in the military and she wanted someone to respond.
SAVE ALL MESSAGES because if she comes to you in any matter you'll have more proof. At least now You know who she is and she isn't just a name. You never know with cyberbullies but she'll be back just don't pay her any attention cause that is why she wrote the things she did so people would respond and they did. You can also report her to her ISP provider if you received any personal threatining messages or her e-mail providers if she e-mails anyone with threatining messages. You should also contact WiredSafety.Org.
Lets not forget how out of hand it can get and how adults can be cruel too (Lori Drew "cyber bully mom" who posted a fake boys MySpace and then the teen killed herself).
i think it doesnt matter what she ment when she made that comment about the military.i think it was wrong and uncalled for.totally inaproppriate.my husband is in the military and i took offense to what she said.thats just my personal opinion.
If youi look back in previous posts, she claimed her husband was an ex-marine. I find that hard to believe after the comments made. I can see alot of lies coming out & I wouldn't believe a word she says.
I understand that everyone has their own opinions and that you all feel like she was in the wrong. But did you realize that what you guys are saying about her are just as bad as the things she said?! You people are sinking to her level. The post started out saying that we are all adults and need to act that way.
Reread the things you have said and try to imagine a mature adult saying that?
I think that the things she said were uncalled for, but the things some of you have been saying and uncalled for as well.
I think this post should be locked because some of the things said here are vicious and this post is subjectifying one person to bullying.
Someone pinpointed her has a bully, but look at what you are doing.
paige, what did i say in that post that called for her following me and my children in real life? it was me and christine she followed just for the purpose of harassing. that is why the police were brought in.
i wasnt a part of the whole thing but if i would have been one of the ladies that she was verbaly attacking i would have reacted the same way.i think at that point it isnt really about "acting" like an adult.she was wrong to talk about pple and ther kids.plain and simple.so i agree that she was bullieng pple.there have been several times were i was part of a discussion and she made some dumn or sarcastic remark that was uncalled for.and i dont want to offened anyone by this.its just my opinion.
I have said my peace and let you all know what is going on. Since she has been iced, let's go on and enjoy some free days without drama. We all know to beware & wasn't that the point. She enjoys reading what we say, so why give her any more satisfaction? Look for me updating old recipe posts & lets have some fun!
wow. ok. see the point of this post was to tell you all that you DONT need to sink to her level. whereas some of you didnt you just reviewed facts, others of you....are you kidding me?
Talking crap about any person is bringing negativity into your life, and this website. DROP it! I only posted this to let you all know that you should ignore things like this, and instead you are THRIVING on it.
PLEASE. Lets move on, Paige is right, its not AS BAD as what she was doing, but its still not the right thing to do.
this site is to help, not to be the new gossip collum.
Elizabeth, i dont think paige meant anything called her her and her actions, and can you please lock this or show me how to lock this?
Its sad we had to get to the point of LOCKING pages because they get too nasty! what does that say?